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Welcome to our community. We will introduce you to many of the fascinating people who make up the world of Aldersbridge Communities: residents, employees, family members, trustees and volunteers. Altogether we are a community of people who struggle to be our best selves, make sense of the life we have been given and show our love and appreciation for one another.

As a wise leader knows, surround yourself with smart people and you will do just fine.  So we plan to share their experiences and wisdom as well as that of the staff, family members and volunteers who ensure our residents receive the great care, amenities and respect they deserve. Perhaps some of these observations or their words of wisdom will strike a chord in you.  Please join us by clicking the subscribe button below and we will give you a glimpse inside our community where older persons live in comfort, with dignity, and purpose.

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Aldersbridge Communities: Our Heroes

Watch video to view highlights of the life in our communities during the COVID-19 pandemic.

Couple Fast-Tracks Wedding for Elderly Mother in Nursing Home

Estelle McGovern, a 92-year old resident of Linn Health & Rehabilitation in East Providence, had the perfect wife in mind for her son, Mick. She tried for several years to fix him up with her Certified Nursing Assistant, Susan Nestell, but to no avail. Each time she mentioned it to them, they wanted nothing to do with it.

Until one day when Mick came to Linn for a visit, and Susan walked into his mother’s room. It was love at first sight!

Mick and Susan abandoned their December 2020 wedding plans for fear of COVID-19 entering the nursing home where his elderly mother lives and his wife-to-be works. Instead, they held their nuptials outdoors on Saturday, April 18, in the Winslow Gardens courtyard adjacent to the Linn Health building, while Estelle was safely inside the Sunroom behind a closed window just feet away.

The light rain and cold weather didn’t dampen the spirits of the wedding couple and their few family members in attendance. Everyone practiced safe distancing and wore facemasks, coming together for only a brief family photo during which everyone held their breath. The minister was brought in via FaceTime on an iPhone, and Estelle, who is visually impaired, was able to follow along by listening to the marriage ceremony on an iPad indoors. She couldn’t have been more thrilled!

The groom wore a traditional black tuxedo suit and the bride wore a simple white dress. As a group of television cameras and a newspaper photographer captured the scene, the couple became husband and wife.

“It snowed that morning and we thought it was quite fitting, because we were scheduled to be married in December anyway,” stated Mick. “Everything went perfectly – just the way we wanted it to happen.” Susan agreed, echoing how grateful they were to Aldersbridge Communities for allowing the wedding to take place onsite in such a beautiful garden setting. “I always wanted to get married outside. Even though the weather was forecast to be sunny and warm the next day, we just couldn’t wait to become Mr. and Mrs. McGovern.”

Aldersbridge Communities CEO Richard Gamache expressed his happiness for the newlyweds. “In this time of stressful isolation due to the coronavirus, we saw this wedding as an opportunity to celebrate a wonderful milestone in a family’s life. It is a reminder that love triumphs all else that’s happening in the world. Under these extenuating circumstances, to be able to share something positive for a change is like a breath of fresh air to all.”

Myrna Griffith Publishes New Novel “The Catch”

Like most writers, Winslow Gardens independent living resident Myrna Griffith began creating stories at an early age. As a teenager growing up in Attleboro, Mass., she wrote for the school newspaper and during spare moments in between dancing and babysitting.

“When I was younger, I taught dance,” the 79-year old recalls. Myrna’s career as a dance instructor continued until the late 1970s but ended when it became too physically demanding for her. She took interest in becoming an author after taking a writing workshop at the Attleboro Museum. “Writing became a new creative outlet for me,” said Griffith “I had a new goal for myself, which was becoming a published author.”

Myrna began writing stories a few decades ago, and describes it as something she took more seriously later in life. “I was 50 years old at the time,” says Griffith. “My children were already grown and writing replaced a lot of the physical activities that I could not do anymore.” Myrna often spent her time writing at a local restaurant and was even published in the Providence Journal.

Today, thanks to the ElderVentures program at Aldersbridge Communities and the help of some personal donations, Myrna’s wish to get her latest book project, The Catch, published has come true. The novel chronicles Detective Otto Van Hulster as he tries to solve a mysterious murder at a boarding school in upstate New York.

A nonprofit organization, Aldersbridge Communities launched its wish-granting program, ElderVentures, in 2018. Funded entirely on donations, ElderVentures is only open to residents who live at one of the four Aldersbridge Communities throughout Rhode Island: Linn Health & Rehabilitation (East Providence), Winslow Gardens assisted and independent living (East Providence), Arbor Hill assisted living (Providence), and St. Germain assisted living (Woonsocket). Residents or their families can make wishes known to the administrators of these communities.

“I am so grateful for ElderVentures and could have never gotten my book published on my own,” Myrna comments. “It’s a fantastic program and speaks to how much Aldersbridge Communities values its residents. This has kept my dream alive and gives my writing exposure. I hope this program inspires people my age so that they can accomplish anything, especially if it is doing something that they love.”

Winslow Gardens held a book signing as part of the ceremony to commemorate Myrna’s wish being granted. “ElderVentures is a wonderful way to help our residents live with purpose,” notes Aldersbridge Communities Chief Executive Officer Richard Gamache, MS, FACHCA. “Together with the generosity of our donors, we are making their dreams that may have seemed impossible, possible.”

The Catch can be purchased through Amazon Smile at https://smile.amazon.com/s?k=myrna+griffith&crid=1EIYPS7J9C4GQ&sprefix=myrna+gri%2Caps%2C134&ref=nb_sb_ss_i_1_9 or from Myrna directly at Winslow Gardens.

Linn’s Laundry Ladies

Linn Health & Rehabilitation

Barbara Branca and some of her finished work

Just as air, food and water are necessary for life, clean laundry is necessary for a nursing home’s existence. Maria Periquito, Cheryl Miller and Barbara Branca are Linn Health & Rehabilitation’s three laundry room workers.  They keep every washable article clean and tidy.  Each day two of the three are scheduled to begin work at 7 AM, attacking a mountain of laundry all day until they punch out at 3PM.

In a typical day, they wash 10 loads of laundry in the 60 pound washer and another 10 loads in the 50 pound washer. Three huge industrial dryers are always running simultaneously in the laundry room, which registers about 80 degrees warm by the afternoon.  The bins of dry laundry that need folding are as seemingly endless as Rumpelstiltskin’s mountain of straw and the service that they provide is gold to Linn Health & Rehabilitation.

Not only do these three women do the laundry for 84 residents, but also clean all the linens, jonnies, towels and bed curtains at Linn Health & Rehabilitation.  In addition to that, they wash, dry and fold all the table cloths for Winslow Gardens’ dining room every day.  They also wash all the rags and mops for the housekeeping department, following strict health department guidelines in the process.

These laundry ladies have to have good organizational skills and attention to detail. Maria explains the system to me: they fill up four large carts and two smaller ones by the end of each day to deliver back to one of the nursing home floors.  One day they wash clothes for the short term rehab residents on the third floor and the next day they wash clothes for the long term nursing care residents on the second floor.  All the residents’ clothing have their names on the inside clothing tags and they sort the clothes to each resident’s assigned space on the cart.  I took a photo of a cart so you could see it, along with the smiling face of our positive and perky laundry room worker, Barbara.

I marvel at their incredible physical strength required to do their jobs. It takes a lot of stamina to be constantly on their feet and a lot of upper body strength to continuously move their arms in order to fold the clothes.

They are dedicated to United Methodist Elder Care: Barbara has worked here for 7 years, Maria for 14 years, and Cheryl for a whopping 17 years! Thanks to these three beautiful women, the residents are tidy, clean and huggable!  In celebration of laundry workers week, let’s be sure to thank and hug a laundry worker too for all the important work that they do!

Lora’s Memory Lane

Lora Rego

Lora Rego

Lora, age 98, sits reading her romance novel in her oversized armchair, covered in a pink gingham throw that she sewed herself. She is receptive to being interviewed and appreciates the company, escorting me down her memory lane.  Reminiscing about her childhood on a farm in North Providence, she excitedly tells me about the good old days when her Italian father slaughtered the pig on Sundays and invited the extended family for dinner, serving his home-made wine.  They had chickens and goats and lots of vegetables in their garden.  Her mother would get up at 4:00 AM to weed and had a kitchen in the basement for canning.  “I really had it so good and never realized it until later in life”, Lora says wistfully.

She married and had a son and a daughter and was always the dutiful mother and wife: cooking and cleaning and doing the laundry and sewing. Lora still has a sewing machine in her apartment and boasts about how she made all her daughter’s dresses, until her daughter turned 11 and wanted store-bought clothes.  I look around her one room apartment at Winslow Gardens where she has lived for the past ten years and notice how it shines and everything is perfectly in its place.  Just like Lora: who always looks perfectly put together – stylishly dressed.  When asked how she looks so young, she credits Oil of Olay skin cream that she religiously used.  Looking at her wrinkle-free face, I can’t imagine that she ever endured any hardship in life, but after a while she reveals more.

“I used to take two buses to work at Trifari in East Providence, where I set rhinestones in pins for 25 years,” she relays to me. In fact, she set the rhinestones in Mrs. Eisenhower’s pearl necklace that she wore during Dwight’s inauguration.  Lora also tells me how her husband was too ill to work consistently throughout their marriage and I get the idea that she carried the family through those times.  “I never had much of anything, but never went hungry or lacked necessities.  I never bought on credit.”

Lora learned about Winslow Gardens when her husband was so ill that he had to go into Linn Health Care Center where he lived out his last days. “They took wonderful care of him.  I can’t say enough good things about that place,” she tells me referring to the adjacent nursing home to her present home.  Her husband passed on 16 years ago.

She suddenly said, “You want to hear a sad story?” Then she proceeded to open up to me.  A couple years after her husband passed, she met a nice man at a musical performance – in fact he played in the band.  He was a younger man and she warned him of her older years, but it wouldn’t stop him to taking a strong liking to her.  They dated for a while and he spoiled her with gifts – something Lora never had experienced before.  Her life had always been so full of hard work.  He whisked her off to Italy and while there proposed marriage to her.  Lora felt like Cinderella at the ball.  But while exiting a bus on that trip, he collapsed, leaving Lora screaming for him to get up.  He had suffered a fatal aneurysm.

So here she is at Winslow Gardens, painting with oils and still cooking and sewing; enjoying her grandchildren when they come to visit. “Life is so hard sometimes,” she tells me tearing up.

“Ah, but the memories,” I reply, “they are so beautiful, aren’t they?”

A Perfect Day With Mary

Cheerful Mary Silva, Never Contrary - Nevah!

Cheerful Mary Silva,
Never Contrary – Nevah!

“It’s like a hotel here! What’s to complain about?”  Mary Silva tells me in her cheerful upbeat voice, “They clean my room and cook for me and I don’t have to do anything.”

She moved to St. Germain Assisted Living six months ago. Mary told me a story about how she had lost all her possessions in a disaster that made her homeless.  She then moved in with her daughter for a year until it reached a point where she needed her own space; “I’m 92 and don’t even own a blanket” she would say to herself.

Born and raised in Manhattan, Mary was married until her husband’s untimely death at the age of 59. “I was married for 39 years and have been alone for 34 years.” Mary observes.  Three children came from that marriage which has now blossomed into five grandchildren, six great-grandchildren and even one great-great grandchild.  Best of all they all live in the area.

Her husband was a pastry chef and ran a bakery in Lincoln called the Saan-Joet Bakery. Mary worked right alongside him.

“Was it difficult to work with your husband all day long?” I ask her, ever the nosy interviewer.

She wisely replied, “I ran the front and he ran the back and that’s how we got along!”

He then became allergic to flour and went to work for Texas Instruments.  Mary took her retail skills to Peerless in Lincoln until the store closed.  That’s when she decided to retire from work.

These days Mary spends her time reading mysteries, thrillers and love stories, which must be the reason her mind is so sharp.

She is philosophical about life: “I’ve had a good life filled with many blessings.” She also tells me that she has chosen not to undergo any medical interventions for her lung cancer.

“What’s a perfect day for you?” I ask her.

“A perfect day is every Saturday when my son comes to spend time with me. He takes me to the hairdresser and then lunch and finally shopping.”  A stylish dresser, Mary’s favorite store is Macy’s.

Hey, what more can a gal ask for? Yes, Mary has certainly been blessed – and we are blessed to have such a positive and brave woman living with us at St. Germain Assisted Living!

Norman – the Karate Kid


Norman Baird was a resident at Winslow Gardens for the past five years.  His wife, Jane, lived in the adjacent Linn Health Care Center, and that is one of the reasons he chose to live nearby.  After he lost his license to drive, living next door to Jane made their daily visits possible.  They were devoted to each other, saying goodnight and “I love you” by phone each night before bed.   Sadly, Jane passed away in 2014 and Norman continued on for another year, until making his departure from this world this past January.

I had the pleasure of many interactions with Norman over the past two years.  He was always so pleasant and cheerful.  He would participate in the men’s breakfasts and the weekly exercise classes, lifting the hand weights and kicking from his wheelchair.  What a trooper!

As I got to know Norman better, I discovered that he had quite a few interesting hobbies over the years to include building ships inside bottles and had even been in a car race!  But I think that Norman’s most impressive hobby was taking karate lessons in his senior years.  With Norman’s physical limitations and advanced years, he was a remarkable karateka with a true “fighter’s spirit”.  And isn’t that what the martial arts is all about?  Fighting our own limitations with persistence and earnestness.   Watch the video of Norman talking about his karate hobby, synched with footage from his karate days!

Amazing Myra

Myra says, "Thanks!"

Myra says, “Thanks!”

I sit with Myra on the couch at her Arbor Hill apartment and she shows me her artwork and the notecards that she makes to raise money for five different charities. They are primarily nonprofits that help victims of human trafficking, as well as her church, Victory Assembly of God.

“You’re very talented, “I comment while sifting through her mountains of artwork.

“Only through God,” Myra replies humbly, “I write poetry too.”

“I have a poem somewhere around here called “Where’d I Put It?” she chuckles as she gets up and peaks in a few folders on her dresser, “but I can’t find it right now.” She chuckles some more. I am wondering if she is pulling a joke on me or if she really wrote a poem about that. I’m a little naïve that way.

Myra suggests to me that we should purchase exercise equipment and open a gym for the residents. She tells me that she used to be in the army and enjoys working out.

“I have to take it easy for now because I just had my first heart attack,” she matter-of-factly relays as if she planned to have several more. I marvel because she is almost 93 years old.

Growing up in Albany, New York, Myra was raised as a Methodist.   She has dedicated herself to God and spends every Sunday afternoon handing out tracts about Christianity because “all the trouble in the world is all in the Bible.”

“I’m never too old to do God’s work,” she tells me, “You know, it’s incredible how God works through people to accomplish things. Wow! Really amazing!”

Myra has a long list of accomplishments in life: having raised two kids and adopted many “spiritual” children as well, starting a library at her church, raising money for charities and traveling to Viet Nam, where her son lives.

She is resilient having endured much in her youth: orphaned and abused before she was adopted. “God was good to me by giving me people to watch over me.”

“Any advice for us?” I ask her.

“Yeah, don’t get too much stuff in your life. Now where did I put that poem?”

Humor – the ties that bind

Bill Murphy
Bill Murphy, Winslow Gardens Resident

God bless those with a sense of humor! They spice up the bland, stuffiness of every day existence. These folks are the ones who seek to brighten your day – even if your day is going just fine.

Bill Murphy says good morning to me from the corner of the empty dining room where he sits after breakfast hours. He has fixed himself a cup of coffee from the open drink station and greets folks who walk through the dining room to go from one building to the other. Today I decide to go over and chat with him for a few minutes.

Bill greets me with a joke: “What did one eyeball say to the other eyeball?” I scramble back into the chaos of disjointed memory cells and amaze myself as I retrieve the answer and reply, “Between us, something smells!”

“That’s great! You remember!” Bill praises me. I’m feeling a sense of pride because remembering jokes is not one of my strong suits. “Here is another one,” Bill tests me again: “What goes up the road and down the road, but doesn’t move?”

This one I don’t remember him telling me before but I can be logical at times and reply, “The lines?”

“That’s right! You’re doing great!” Bill is building my confidence in myself. Who knows? Maybe that standup comedy career I’m dreaming of isn’t as far into the future as I think. Maybe my lifelong dream of being friends with Jim Carrey is on the horizon…

“One more,” Bill says, “What’s the difference between an in-law and an outlaw?” Uh oh. I can’t remember nor deduce the answer. Darn! I know he has told me this one before. I stare at Bill blankly as my dreams on the horizon become further and further away.

Bill finally gets to have his punch line: “The outlaw’s wanted!”

I laugh – now that is funny! Who can’t relate to that?

I told him that I’m writing these down so I will be able to repeat them. And you can help Bill with his legacy of humor by retelling these jokes today. Just tell any joke to anybody today. Humor draws us together through understanding. My laughter means I like being with you and that I understand you. When someone is laughing at your joke, you just can’t feel lonely.

Our resident Seabee Joe

Last week we had a movie viewing of “The Fighting Seabees” starring John Wayne.  Afterwards, our own Seabee star, Joe Andrews, a resident of Winslow Gardens, took the microphone and captivated the audience in attendance for about 20 minutes.  He talked about his experience as a Seabee and we really enjoyed learning more about this important time in history.  Here is a five minute interview of Joe, interspersed with real WWII footage, focused on his time as a Seabee.  Joe is just another fascinating senior who resides in a United Methodist Elder Care property.